There is something so liberating about being single. I have lived most of my adult life in a relationship, and now…I call all the shots, I make my own decisions, I sing, dance, laugh, speak, but most importantly I live. [I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-C-E]
As much as we ignore it, life is happening. Time passes and then it is gone. Forever. So why do we choose to spend a second of this precious time even the slightest unhappy? We should never feel uncomfortable in our own lives. It’s ours.
I see so many people always settle in different situations. Whether it be for a jobs, relationships, or for their own personal timeline. We are all guilty of it. But why do we allow ourselves to stay in this comfort zone also better known as our daily torture? We need to step out into the unknown and explore the world that surrounds us. Teach ourselves to become better people. The minute we stop forcing something to happen, the right thing will happen.
This year, I fully intend on being selfish. I will consume ever ounce of happiness that is available in 2017 and I will enjoy it for my own benefit. I know the plans I have for myself, and none of them will happen unless I first plant the right seeds in this garden that is my life.